my family is so messed up

mom cried on the phone about how she feels quilty for Fay’s condition

but I told her that it’s not her fault - how could it be?

mom’s done everything she can but my brother has serious ADHD and when he loses control he loses it completely

mom used to be able to stop him when Fay attacked her, but now that her condition is worse(because of her heart) she can’t do anything

mom and her doctor are thinking about putting Fay away somewhere while my mom recovers from the surgeries she’s had. Like, a foster home of some sort

because this is killing her. Mom would’ve recovered by now, but all these setbacks with my brother are making things worse.

They would probably do another operation on her, but she’s far too weak for it at the moment